When I had my daughter three years ago, I felt exactly the same way as Dr. Alexandra Sacks described - "I'm not good at this. I am not enjoying this. Do I have postpartum depression?" Now I understand why: we are in the emotional tug-of-war of matrescence when we have a new baby. Watch this 6-minute TED talk to find out what matrescence is and what we could do about it. Key word? Community. Enjoy!